syspana.blogg.se - People insist on hurting other by dredging up the past subtly or blatantly

Don’t think about before when he was a dickhead and messing us around.

Focus on the act itself (him getting in touch).

Now, like a lot of things in shady relationships, obsessing over the “What ifs” of this question is a reflection of Women Who Talk and Think Too Much syndrome and not seeing the wood for the trees. In reality, they’re being used for a shag and/or an ego stroke.īut… Fallback Girls and assclown lovers are obsessed with the big question: Will he try to get in contact with me?

Just ask the millions of women out there that are secretly hoping for their ex to suddenly see them for the great people they are so they can have their fairy-tale ending. Even when you don’t have to get medieval on the person and cut contact, I’ve said it before, and I’ll say it a million times again: this whole staying in touch and trying to be friends after you’ve broken up is bullshit. I’m a huge advocate for using the No Contact Rule on men (and women) that just seem to have an allergy to breaking up and making a clean break. Tags: assclowns, betting on potential, shady behaviour, shady people, shady relationships, The No Contact Rule, Users and Being Used